won't you please, please, help me?

It makes me sad that the autism community is so divided. I realize that each side has their opinions and theories to back it up, but I think a lot of the time the mudslinging gets in the way of helping the kids. The main problem being, parents can't get help because their pediatrician is on Team A but they are leaning toward Team B. I think that pediatricians should listen to parents, and address their concerns. If they want their child tested for something, the doctor should run the test, why do they care if the parents waste their money on 'crazy theories'? In the end if it helps the child then that's wonderful, if it doesn't then the doctor has done what they can to appease the parents and they can say "I told you so" and go about their day. What is the harm in that? Seriously, if anyone knows what these doctors are so afraid of then please tell me.